this is copy-pasted from like. five years ago. i’ll reformat it ONE day … today is not that day<\/p>\r\n
as for how they STAYED friends; credit for that goes to Tanum. Havi is VERY introverted and doesn\u2019t reach out to people, so he doesn\u2019t make friends super easily (nor wants to) \u2013 but Tanum is SUPER good at\u00a0GETTING IN YOUR FACE<\/strong>\u00a0and forcing friendship to happen; he\u2019s good at figuring out what other people like to talk about, what they don\u2019t like to talk about, talking about THEM (unless they don\u2019t want to), being interested in THEM, etc. he\u2019s a people person. he likes making them happy. it\u2019s cute. (he also loves throwing parties)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n anyway Havi is MUCH easier to open up to people when<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n 1) the person is actually interesting & that\u2019s why they\u2019re friends; even though outwardly \/ socially they\u2019redrastically<\/em>\u00a0different.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n to anyone who wasn\u2019t stupid, it was extremely obvious Tanum had a HUGE crush on Havi. Havi knew about this since the beginning, but always chose to ignore it due to not wanting to affect their Super Awesome Friendship + believing that Tanum deserved someone much better than him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n HOWEVER, at some point in their late teens, the two had a bit of a fling \u2026 except Havi literally pretended that it never happened because he was too scared to address it. (there was alcohol involved, so obviously he just got \u2026 SOOOO DRUNK HE JUST \u2026 DIDN\u2019T REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED HAHA \u2026 CRAZY \u2026 RIGHT)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n this happened a few more times (spread across the next ten years) all with the same results. though they were so few and far between, neither of them ever addressed it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n at around\u00a0ages 18,\u00a0<\/strong>Havi and Tanum decided to run away together. Havi didn\u2019t want all the responsibility of running his dad\u2019s temple (which was what he was\u00a0supposed<\/em>\u00a0to do) and Tanum couldn\u2019t see himself anywhere other than at his best friend\u2019s side.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n so they just \u2026 up and left. with no warning or confrontation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n (you\u2019ll soon find this is a running theme with Havi)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Arnam didn\u2019t mind so much because at that point in his life he was dealing with ~*~important Litor council stuff~*~ and didn\u2019t have much time to hang out w\/ them anymore. they had already started drifting by the time Havi & Tanum moved on but it\u2019s\u00a0fine<\/em>, really, no bad blood. they said their goodbyes & stuff. it\u2019s all good.<\/p>\r\n\r\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" this is copy-pasted from like. five years ago. i’ll reformat it ONE day … today is not that day as for how they STAYED friends; credit for that goes to Tanum. Havi is VERY introverted and doesn\u2019t reach out to people, so he doesn\u2019t make friends super easily (nor wants to) \u2013 but Tanum is […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-full-width.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"folder":[],"class_list":["post-4737","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry","blog-left-layout","blog-style-postblock","","blog-alt-odd"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4737","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4737"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4737\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4737"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/emifail.com\/ocs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/folder?post=4737"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
2) THEY are making an effort to talk to HIM<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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